Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Atmosphere--Susan Griffin


Learning to
draw tenderness, the
sky is full of
snow for her,
and she knows the
road curves around
her and the chill
of the air has no
fear, and she
sees her sorrow
gleaming in the
hardening river, she is
learning to take
tenderness from the
atmosphere.

---Unremembered Country pg 9

i am the permeable membrane.


themanrepeller:

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i am the permeable membrane.  
how to not lose oneself in a lover
 is a tricky boundary to be sure. 
 i am consumed….by the idea 
of his existence. he is the first thing 
i think of in any free moment. 
 i plan my schedule around the quantity 
of time i can spend with him. i have fallen…
for something inside him. some uncanny energy. 
 for what? why do we take these leaps
when we know the landing is unattainable. 
my oh my do i have a knack for men 
whose lives seem mutually exclusive to my own. 
and so we share this 'time capsule' of passion, 
in limbo….between metaphysical destinations. 
will i ever meet a man whom with i can just 'be'? 
perhaps i wouldn't be satisfied with the coincidence...
the smoothness. so i tease my poor heart 
with another wandering spirit. 
and yes…its been worth it.

Masks that Kill




These are some previews for documentaries highlighting the nefarious undertones of Western gender roles. Both men and women are forced to embody an unattainable or destructive version of themselves to feel worthy in society. Awareness is the road to change.

Photo-cred---The Sartorialist

A Wise Woman on Love and Relationships


 

Since very early this morning my mind has been reviewing my history with relationships, spurred by Amanda asking about how I've navigated certain relational terrain.  I didn't say much at the time she asked, due to my own uncertainty of how much to share at that moment.  Its an interesting and important line to walk as a therapist/facilitator of how and when to share my personal story or history.  I always ask myself whether doing so is truly in the service of the group, or client, and I have to really be clear on that.  I am pretty sure that for at least some of you, it could be helpful to hear an honest account of the important learning and growth I have experienced through relationships.  So, I will write more here.  If you don't feel that would be helpful to you, trust yourself on that and feel free to stop here!  I won't write an autobiography, but will try to speak to some of the topics and questions that came up last night in our group, and how they surfaced for me, and how I found my way through them.  And really, I feel like I have nothing to hide about any part of my life or myself, so do know that I am open to questions and will continue to be open with you, while listening to and honoring my own boundaries in the moment. 

In my twenties I had several serious relationships with men, interspersed by long periods of time spent being single.  I am pretty comfortable on my own, and enjoy my independence, so that was OK with me.  I also really love connection and relationship, and knew that I wanted a partner and put a lot of energy into relationships when I was in them.  During my twenties I was also moving forward with my career path, and along with that came embarking on my own therapy, and a lot of personal work as I was becoming a therapist.  My relationships during that time were under a lot of reflection.

My time single was critical for developing my sense of my self, getting clear on who I was and who I was becoming, and moving my own life forward.  It really helped build my strength and confidence in many areas, although at times I felt lonely and unsure if I would ever find a relationship that would sustain over time.

When I was 28, a relationship I had been very invested in ended, despite me doing everything I knew how to do to keep it going.  I was devastated.  I was in the midst of graduate school at Naropa, though, and had an amazingly supportive situation amongst my peers, and a therapist that I still feel so grateful for.   And probably because I was so well supported, for the first time I was able to consciously feel what was one of my core woundings: a fear that I was unloveable.  I feel sad even writing that now, that I lived so long with this deep fear, rather unaware of it, but it was always operating on some level.  It all made sense given my family dynamics, and how I functioned for so long, but to really feel it was a whole other deal.

I started to see how I chose men who were rather unavailable in some way, and my unconscious hope was that by getting them to love me, I would then feel loveable.  Because they were unavailable or "hard to get" in some way, my unconscious hope was that I would really feel loveable and special if I got the "hard to get" guy to commit, open up, and love me.  I was actually setting myself up, without knowing it, to be disappointed, and to be thrown back on my own unresolved pain, and face my fear as it seemed that these relationships were confirming my worst fear of being unworthy of love.  The genius in my approach was that I did have to eventually deal with myself, which is what needed to happen all along, and to attend to this fear I was carrying without expecting or needing someone else to do it for me (which no one can, anyway, I found out as well).  So, I spent more than a year picking up the pieces of myself that had been so disowned and gradually, somehow, using every tool I knew, came to a new way of being in myself that felt more grounded, safe, and reliable.  I now am actually grateful to all those men for not rescuing me (which they actually couldn't have anyway) from my own work that I needed to do to restore my own wholeness.

When I finally met my now husband, I was 29, in a much more comfortable place in myself, and ready to start again.  And of course, he was somewhat unavailable!  It was about a year from our first meeting before we actually started dating, and in that year I was just watching how I would have moments of being interested in him, then be completely turned off by his lack of availability, that before would only have made me doubt myself and then be more interested in him.  So I was happy that finally, I was not attracted to someone who kept himself at a distance. 

When we finally started dating, he was more ready and available and I was so much more clear that I didn't need his love to feel loveable.  It was a good start!  But we still both had more work to do.  In 3 and half years, we broke up twice, very painfully, him not ready to commit more fully and needing to do more work on himself, and me having to grieve and feel the loss despite thinking that it should work out since I had really done my work!  I was angry, heartbroken, and completely at a loss.  I finally was able to see that on a very subtle level, I STILL wanted him to love me and commit to me so that I could confirm my worthiness of love.  It was still there, and once again it took losing the relationship, TWICE, for me to see that and really get it. 

Still working with the same therapist, I just kept going with my own work, using the friendships I had cultivated for support, too.  After our second break up something really shifted in me, I was angry and I also felt my own certainty, finally, that the relationship was over NOT because I was unworthy of love.  I finally just knew it very deeply, that I was loveable, regardless of whether he--or anyone--loved me or not.  I wish I could say how exactly that occurred but I just think it was an accumulation of staying with my experience, for years, with really solid and skilled support around me, that I was able to shift how I felt about myself.  That simple, and that hard.

When we did get engaged, about a month after our second break up, we both had learned big pieces for ourselves.  I learned that I was OK without him, and he learned that was OK with me (his fears were more around losing himself, being engulfed, being abandoned).  So, then we were ready!  I laugh as I write this, what we had to go through to get to being Ok with ourselves.  The human journey is rich, challenging....and kind of funny. :)

Some of my friends and family were supportive of us getting married, and some were openly opposed, given our roller coaster of break ups, etc.  That was disappointing, but I also knew again that even if he decided to end the relationship on our wedding day, that I would be sad, AND that I would be OK, was very comforting to me.  Knowing I will be OK, whatever happens, allows me to take the risks in my life that lead to fulfillment.

We have an amazing marriage, I must say, and I think a lot of it is due to getting a lot cleared up before we committed to each other.  We both continue to work on ourselves, and take responsibility for our feelings, insecurities, fears, etc.  We support each other with doing our personal work.  We have a strong community of support, too.  We are both committed to and highly value personal/spiritual growth, and our relationship is a spiritual path for us.  We both work at staying connected to ourselves, and each other, and have a low tolerance for checking out.  And we have fun and laugh a lot.

There is so much more I could say but I hope that gives an overview of the path I have walked when it comes to creating a committed relationship for myself.  There is no right way, but I do believe that relationship is a path to growth, healing, and if we use all the opportunities that come our way, we will have no way to go but to evolve.  And that is fulfilling, whether it leads us to partnership or not.

SIDENOTE:  I just had Jayson (my husband) read this, and he added that he really felt something shift energetically and spiritually for him when I landed solidly in myself and my self love after our second break up.  He feels that shift, in combination with him doing his own work, allowed us to finally come together.  He also says I was more attractive to him after that shift in myself, however subtle it was, he noticed it, for what that is worth.  For me, whether it was attractive to him or not, I am grateful for the growth that I experienced.

Last thing!  All those years, in my twenties, struggling through relationships, I was "doing" self care.  Journaling, extensive time in nature, movement, yoga, meditation, social support, all the stuff we think of.....it was supportive to a point: none of it was touching the deeper work that needed to happen.  Relationship is what helped bring out my deeper work, which was so helpful, and feeling everything in my being as fully as I could, with support and awareness, is really what helped me grow and evolve.  So for me, self care is REALLY about feeling my experience fully, and doing whatever helps me to do so.  I think that is important to know so that we all make it a priority to figure out what actually is caring for ourselves, in a deep and meaningful way, that helps our life be as fulfilling as we will let it be.

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

That Kind of Woman--Warsan Shire

perfectmadness:

Everything for art, mother (by Anna Inghardt)
how far have you walked for men who’ve never held your feet in their laps?
how often have you bartered with bone, only to sell yourself short?
why do you find the unavailable so alluring?
where did it begin? what went wrong? and who made you feel so worthless?
if they wanted you, wouldn’t they have chosen you?
all this time, you were begging for love silently, thinking they couldn’t hear you, but they smelt it on you, you must have known that they could taste the desperate on your skin?
and what about the others that would do anything for you, why did you make them love you until you could not stand it?
how are you both of these women, both flighty and needful?
where did you learn this, to want what does not want you?
where did you learn this, to leave those that want to stay?

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Her--Love in the Modern Age


7 Years, 7 Lessons



This post is from Brain Pickings --Maria Popova shares her lessons gleaned from 7 years of running this extraordinary blog.

  1.   Allow yourself the uncomfortable luxury of changing your mind. Cultivate that capacity for “negative capability.” We live in a culture where one of the greatest social disgraces is not having an opinion, so we often form our “opinions” based on superficial impressions or the borrowed ideas of others, without investing the time and thought that cultivating true conviction necessitates. We then go around asserting these donned opinions and clinging to them as anchors to our own reality. It’s enormously disorienting to simply say, “I don’t know.” But it’s infinitely more rewarding to understand than to be right — even if that means changing your mind about a topic, an ideology, or, above all, yourself.
  2. Do nothing for prestige or status or money or approval alone. As Paul Graham observed, “prestige is like a powerful magnet that warps even your beliefs about what you enjoy. It causes you to work not on what you like, but what you’d like to like.” Those extrinsic motivators are fine and can feel life-affirming in the moment, but they ultimately don’t make it thrilling to get up in the morning and gratifying to go to sleep at night — and, in fact, they can often distract and detract from the things that do offer those deeper rewards.
  3. Be generous. Be generous with your time and your resources and with giving credit and, especially, with your words. It’s so much easier to be a critic than a celebrator. Always remember there is a human being on the other end of every exchange and behind every cultural artifact being critiqued. To understand and be understood, those are among life’s greatest gifts, and every interaction is an opportunity to exchange them.
  4. Build pockets of stillness into your life. Meditate. Go for walks. Ride your bike going nowhere in particular. There is a creative purpose to daydreaming, even to boredom. The best ideas come to us when we stop actively trying to coax the muse into manifesting and let the fragments of experience float around our unconscious mind in order to click into new combinations. Without this essential stage of unconscious processing, the entire flow of the creative process is broken.
    Most importantly, sleep. Besides being the greatest creative aphrodisiac, sleep also affects our every waking moment, dictates our social rhythm, and even mediates our negative moods. Be as religious and disciplined about your sleep as you are about your work. We tend to wear our ability to get by on little sleep as some sort of badge of honor that validates our work ethic. But what it really is is a profound failure of self-respect and of priorities. What could possibly be more important than your health and your sanity, from which all else springs?
  5. When people tell you who they are, Maya Angelou famously advised, believe them. Just as importantly, however, when people try to tell you who you are, don’t believe them. You are the only custodian of your own integrity, and the assumptions made by those that misunderstand who you are and what you stand for reveal a great deal about them and absolutely nothing about you.
  6. Presence is far more intricate and rewarding an art than productivity. Ours is a culture that measures our worth as human beings by our efficiency, our earnings, our ability to perform this or that. The cult of productivity has its place, but worshipping at its altar daily robs us of the very capacity for joy and wonder that makes life worth living — for, as Annie Dillard memorably put it, “how we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives.”
  7. “Expect anything worthwhile to take a long time.” This is borrowed from the wise and wonderful Debbie Millman, for it’s hard to better capture something so fundamental yet so impatiently overlooked in our culture of immediacy. The myth of the overnight success is just that — a myth — as well as a reminder that our present definition of success needs serious retuning. As I’ve reflected elsewhere, the flower doesn’t go from bud to blossom in one spritely burst and yet, as a culture, we’re disinterested in the tedium of the blossoming. But that’s where all the real magic unfolds in the making of one’s character and destiny.

Global Language


 

Two years ago, in the dwindling days of December, I found myself wandering round a bustling marketplace in downtown Cape Town. This was my first trip to Africa and usually when I visit a new place, I go downtown to get a feel for the culture, the language. Before my departure, as always, I did some research and had a feel for the predominant tribal groups, ethnic minorities and majorities. In South Africa, with its eleven official languages, I expected to hear some Afrikaans, Zulu, or Xhosa in the streets; yet amidst my meandering between booths, heavily laden with stylistically streamlined African artifacts, I heard only English.
English is being described as the new global language, dominating science, medicine, academics, business, government, technology, media and most of all, the Internet. One quarter of the planet is fluent in English, native and non-native speakers, and this number is growing exponentially (Crystal, 4). Of course, with any global issue, there is a heated debate as to its advantages and disadvantages. Many individuals view the spread of English as an inevitable result of globalization. With English as a baseline mechanism for communication for the ‘global village,’ business runs easier, travel is less daunting, information can be shared without tedious translation, and people of many different backgrounds can come together to express ideas in a common tongue. At the same time, many, including myself, see the domination of the English language as an expression of cultural imperialism and homogenization, fearing for a loss of diversity within the realm of human experience. In this essay I will vouch for the preservation of diversified language because I believe each human’s identity and culture, both of which are intrinsically connected with language, contain ineffable value that should not be suppressed by the powers-that-be.
To critically analyze an issue, one must have an idea of its roots and mechanisms of maintenance. David Crystal, in his book, English as a Global Language, describes a global language as one that is recognized internationally for its special uses and purposes (Crystal, 2). Crystal claims that languages spread, not due to the inherent nature of the language itself but because of the power of the people who speak it, particularly military and economic power (Crystal, 7). He applies this concept to 19th and 20th century politics, when Britain and America were thriving as militant, economic and technological superpowers. British colonization and the growth of the United States as an economic heavyweight spread English around the world. With this financial padding, Anglo-phonic countries invested more in research and technology, marketing this knowledge through the multinational corporation and further entrenching the supremacy of English. This empire was finally consecrated with the invention of the Internet (8).
Around 72% of Internet pages are in English and majority of telecommunication infrastructure resides in developed, English aware countries (Ngai, 2012). Obviously the Internet is a huge wealth of information, available only to those who speak English. One doesn’t only need to learn English to be tech-savvy, but to be a member of the global marketplace, to have a chance at economic and social mobility, to communicate with younger generations, the list goes on. In the words of Mark Warchauer, a professor of education and informatics at the University of California, "English has become the second language of everybody. It's gotten to the point where almost in any part of the world to be educated means to know English,"(Mydans 2007). It seems in today’s world the mantra rings, assimilate or perish.
The spread of English and globalization have been like twisting strands of a double helix, complementing and supporting each other. As Warchauer comments, “"Having a global language has assisted globalization, and globalization has consolidated the global language,” (Mydans 2007). As with globalization, there have been countless benefits to the ubiquity of this language. For one, a mono-linguistic comportment has provided a platform for international communication in the public and private sector. For example in international business meetings, Saudi Arabian, Chinese and Brazilian individuals could use English as a common ground of communication instead of hassling with interpretation. Costs of translation and interpretation within global relations definitely factor in the promotion of a lingua franca (The Guardian 2001). Some proponents claim that a global language would reduce cultural misunderstandings although there is no empirical support of this notion (Crystal 13). Learning English can be a ticket out of poverty in developing countries and many families prefer sending their kids to English schools because they feel it will serve them better in the long run.
There is also an overall sentiment that English is already a global language and therefore we might as well use it to our advantage. Some people take the middle ground by promoting a bilingual stance to linguistic globalization; that is, people should utilize local languages as well as English depending on the context. This is keenly expressed in an article written for The Guardian, an online news source based out of the UK, “there is no need to set up an old-fashioned dichotomy between local languages and English as the "hegemonic aggressor": there is a place for both, because they fulfill different functions,” (The Guardian 2001). In other words, many supporters of a lingua franca believe that people don’t have to identify themselves, culturally or socially, through English, but should recognize the language’s relevance in modern society. In a globalized world we need to have a global language; indigenous languages have no use in the world of blogs and happy meals.
At first glance, the aforementioned statements are rendered intuitively sound; unfortunately the relationships between language, identity and society are not so cut and dry. Individuals are against making English a global language for numerous reasons: they believe it promotes the homogenization of humanity; it is a mechanism of cultural imperialism; it will result in a loss of indigenous knowledge, music, poetry, stories—a loss of culture. But there is a question that presupposes all of these adverse conclusions, a question linguists and psychologists have been quarreling over for decades: does language affect thought?
In his chapter, Babel Revisited, Peter Mühlhäusler, describes two theories through which to understand the relationship between language and the world: mapping theory and the linguistic relativity hypothesis (Mühlhäusler 104). The mapping or labeling theory contends that our world is made up of fundamental units for which language has different labels. This view is expressed by linguist and psychologist Steven Pinker, who claims that language is an adaptation; language evolved out of necessity to label the things around us and communicate cognitions (Pinker 2003). Pinker expands on Noam Chomsky’s ideas of universal grammar by claiming that all languages can be broken down into basic cognitive categorizations, in other words, language doesn’t shape our thoughts (and therefore our experiences), but language works as it does by virtue of innate, adaptive biological mechanisms (Chomsky 1977, Papineau 2007). In the words of Mühlhäusler, "according to this theory, the differences between languages are only superficial and all languages are fully inter-translatable,” (Mühlhäusler 104); therefore a global language is neutral because all languages end up communicating the same universal labels and cognitions.
The second theory through which to understand the role of language in society is referred to as the Sapir-Whorf or linguistic relativity hypothesis (Mühlhäusler 104). The idea of linguistic relativity is expressed eloquently by David Crystal, during his feature in the documentary, In Languages We Live: Voices of the World, a film by Janis Billeskov Jansen and Signe Bryge Sørenson, “the world is a mosaic of visions, and each vision is encapsulated by a language… every time a language is lost, one vision of the world disappears;” in other words, language defines how each human experiences the world (Jansen and Sørenson 2005). In an article for the New York Times, “Does Your Language Shape How You Think?” Guy Deutscher comments on re-vamped understandings of linguistic relativity, “if different languages influence our minds in different ways, this is not because of what our language allows us to think but rather because of what it habitually obliges us to think about,” (Deutscher 2010). For example, English is a gender-neutral language and therefore its speakers are less focused on gendered dichotomies in their comprehension, whereas a Spanish or French speaker would view this information as vital to their understanding of the world (Deutscher 2010).
Deutscher continues to comment on how language demands us to speak, feel and think about concepts differently, such as space, color, perception, time, geography etc. Peter Mühlhäusler also describes the immense diversity between languages with regards to communicating certain phenomena: specifically with nature, plants, weather, color, kinship ties, parts of the body, emotions, states of mind, religion, spiritual ideas, social distinctions, and metaphors (Mühlhäusler 106). For example: some indigenous cultures having thousands of names for plants, whereas the western knowledge of nature is quite generalized; the Hopi of North America have no word for ‘depression’; the Tofa people of Siberia have many terms for ‘reindeer’ similar to the Tuvans who use special names for colors, body patterns, and head marking of horses, cows, and yaks (Harrison 2007, Sommers-Flanagan 2012). David Harrison in this chapter, An Extinction of (ideas about) Species, contends that humanity is at risk of losing an amazing vault of eco-knowledge with the extinction of languages (Harrison 2007).
There are around 6000 languages left in the world it is predicted that in 100 years, half of those languages will be extinct. If this occurs, as David Crystal describes, not only will we lose specialized knowledge of the natural world, “[but] if we do nothing…half of the world’s heritage will be gone,” (Jansen and Sørenson 2005). Crystal’s statement alludes to the idea that we experience reality through language, we experience ourselves, and this is only so pure in our mother tongue. The book, Counseling and Psychotherapy Theories in Context and Practice, written by John Sommers-Flanagan and Rita Sommers-Flanagan, describes the self as a narrative concept, birthed in the cultural parameters of language. Language and identity are two sides to the same coin; if our concept of the self is intrinsically linked to our personal narrative, then taking away that understanding and filtering it through another cultures’ perspective is very undermining and detrimental to psychological and emotional health (Sommers-Flanagan 2012). As Director Janus Jansen describes, “to lose my mother tongue would be like being forced into language exile. I would lose my family’s history and culture,” (Jansen and Sørenson 2005).
I believe the only way to truly observe issues of global injustice are through a holistic lens. In the documentary, The Color of Fear, a group of mixed-ethnicity men explore issues of racism. At one point in the documentary, a white men comments that he doesn’t understand himself as part of an ethnic community and is perplexed at why race has to be such an issue, “why can’t we all just be members of the human race?” Two African American men retort,
“This is the problem with racism…As a white man, he doesn’t have to think about his position in life, his place in the world. The history books tell him, as they are written, that this is his world…he doesn’t have to think of himself as a white person because the way the world is set up, America in particular, white is a human-being…they step into a world that is theirs.” (Mun Wa, 1994)

Similarly with language, those who grow up speaking English don’t understand why globalizing the English language has to be such a problem, because they are already privileged in that they speak it. I have noticed this paradigm of globalizing homogenization in which what it means to be human is to be a white male who speaks English, dresses a certain way, expresses emotion a certain way, eats certain foods, celebrates certain traditions, practices a certain religion. This idea of English as global language, which is supported by many valid points, is just another veiled expression of white supremacy. What English as a global language is saying to the marginalized peoples of the world is that their cultural contribution does not matter; they do not matter unless they assimilate and essentially ‘lose themselves.’
I am against promoting English as a global language not only because I support the aforementioned arguments that there will be a loss of diversity, culture, and knowledge; I also believe this trend to be another form of Anglo-phonic oppression on minorities. From the moment I first inhaled, my senses were inundated with stimuli of privilege. For example: I was born in a sanitary hospital, with all the necessary accoutrements to meet my medical needs; I was taken to a warm home where I was fed properly and loved; my genealogical heritage is such that my skin color is defined as ‘white’; the first words I heard were English words and English is my mother tongue. All of these things, probably reminiscent stories of many individuals born in the United States, although seemingly basic, are flagrant status symbols, laying the bedrock for my certain success in the world. I agree with Crystal when he claims,
“a global language will cultivate an elite monolingual linguistic class, more complacent and dismissive in their attitudes towards other languages…[who] will be more able to think and work quickly in it, and to manipulate it to their own advantage at the expense of those who do not have it, thus maintaining in a linguistic guise the chasm between rich and poor,” (Crystal 2003).

            The promotion of a mono-linguistic world disrespects my basic tenet that each human has something very unique to share with the world and this ability to share is an intrinsic right that should be protected. With the extinction of language not only will we lose culture and knowledge, but also we will be affirming a paradigm that doesn’t respect the inherent value of human beings. Although there are some advantages to English as a global language, economically, corporately, communicatively, the advantages seem to favor the privileged. I believe accepting these veiled rationales without digging deeper into the perpetual top-down injustices would be an ignorant conclusion. And while those who speak English can remain linguistically blind to their true advantage and vouch for everyone to be like them for sake of convenience, I believe that forcing people to eschew their mother tongue and essentially, their identity for the sake of a further globalized, homogenized, interdependent monoculture is not worth the price.


Works Cited

“A Stateless Language that Europe Must Embrace.” The Guardian 18 April. 2001: Web. Accessed 5 Dec. 2012.

Chomsky, Noam. Essays on form and interpretation. New York: North-Holland, 1977.

Crystal, David. Why a Global Language? New York: 2003. Cambridge University Press. New York, NY. Print.

Deutscher, Guy “Does Your Language Shape How You Think?” New York Times.  26 Aug. 2010: web. Accessed 9 Dec. 2012.

Harrison, David. “An Extinction of Ideas about Species.” Oxford University Press. 2007. Print. p. 23-55.

Jansen, Janis Billeskov and Signe Bryge Sørenson, dirs. In languages we Live: Voices of the World. Final Cut Productions, 2005. Documentary.  

Muelenhausler, Peter. “Babel Revisited.” Print. p. 103-108.

Mydans, Seth. “Across Cultures, English is the Word.” New York Times 9 April. 2007: Web. Accessed 5 Dec. 2012.

Ngai, Phyllis. Power Point. Lesson 2: Globalization, Informatization and Communication. 2012.

Papineau, David. “Caveman Conversations.” Rev. of The Stuff of Thought, by Steven Pinker. The Independent 5 Oct. 2007. Web: Accessed 9 Dec. 2012.

Pinker, Steven. “Language as an adaptation to the cognitive niche.” In: Kirby S, Christiansen M Language evolution: States of the Art. Language evolution: States of the Art. New York: Oxford University Press; 2003. p. 16-37.

Sommers-Flanagan, John and Rita Sommers-Flanagan. Counseling and Psychotherapy Theries in Context and Practice: Skills Strategies, and Techniques. New Jersey: John Wiley & Sons, Inc., 2012. Print.

The Color of Fear. Dir, Lee Mun Wa, 1994. Documentary.

Media and Globalization



In the wake of this ever-globalizing world, our conception of mass media’s role within politics, humanitarianism, economics and the environment is constantly shifting. Many people equate the spread of information and technology with the spread of democracy, culture and innovation, but in my research I have settled on a different perspective. In this paper I propose the premise that Western news coverage does not reflect true reality and therefore misinforms the public.
There are numerous ways to illustrate my premise, but I will begin with a few concepts cognitive psychologists use to describe processes of judgment. As citizens of the West, we are constantly bombarded with information: ads, texts, articles, memes, tweets, stats and gossip. Even though we may feel like critical thinkers when it comes to this information, it is empirically supported that media indeed influences cognition. As is described in the textbook, Cognitive Psychology: Applying the Science of the Mind, written by Bridget and Gregory Robinson-Riegler, the media serves a huge role in encoding based availability biases, two of which are: the availability heuristic, and the representative heuristic (463-469). The availability heuristic describes how “we base our estimates of likelihood or probability [of events], on the ease with which we can think of examples.” For example, if American news stations, when covering events in Israel, constantly display stories of Palestinian jihadists attacking Israeli soldiers and people, while rarely exposing reciprocal violence, viewers will unconsciously perceive the former as ubiquitous (465). The second concept is the representative heuristic, “whereby we assess the degree to which an object represents (is similar to) our basic idea (or stereotype) of that object”(468). For example, before getting on an airplane we see a darker man wearing a turban, we may automatically feel in danger. These stereotypes and perceptions lining our cognitive processes are heavily, yet subtly, influenced by mass media, generating subconscious misinformation effects.
A quintessential example of the promotion of these biases can be seen with the Israeli/Palestinian conflict, as described in the documentary, Peace, Propoganda and the Promisedland (Jhally 2004). This documentary unveils the stark contrast in media coverage over Israel’s occupation in Palestine between the U.S. and other sources. It claims that executives of United States and Israel have combined forces to ideologically plant the perception of an ‘innocent Israel’ in the minds of the American public instead of exposing the egregious (not to mention illegal) human rights crimes committed against the Palestinian people over the past 30 years. This victimized conception of Israel is maintained through subtle language, omission of coverage over Palestinian tragedies, and intimidating journalists who challenge these views. The documentary explains how real events travel through institutional filters before reaching the public; these filters being: corporate interest, political elites, Israeli public relations efforts, and watchdog groups who harass journalists or editors to make ‘objective’ (aka pro-Israel) claims in their reporting (Jhally 2004). At the heart of this issue lies the question, who benefits from this skewed presentation of information? It is obvious that political and economic heavyweights are misinforming the public to abuse influence over the media to promote ulterior motives (oil, weapons) in the Middle East.
            The misperception over the Israeli/Palestinian conflict reflects Edward Said’s ideas with a concept he coined, “Orientalism”(Jhally 1998). In reality Israel is a Judeo-Christian state in the middle of an Arab world, and in vouching for Israel, the United States is vouching for ‘the west’ with the goal of demonizing ‘the east’ to justify questionable actions against Arabs, against Islam. In Said’s words, “Anti-Arab statements are almost officially sanctioned”(Jhally 1998). He believes the Western lens maintained by mass media distorts our understanding of the Arab world to make it appear threatening, mysterious and synonymous with terrorism. Said claims that there is no investigative reporting, only repetition of government incentives; as a result of this skewed use of media, the democratic majority, who is confident they are receiving unbiased information, is being subliminally coerced into aligning ideologically against the Arab world (Jhally 1998).
In reality, the Arab world is comprised of a myriad of different cultures, ideologies and forms of religious adherence. As Randy Culver describes in his article, Globalization, Informatization and Communication, there is a tendency to equate “culture” [and religion] with “nation [or region]”(431), instead of recognizing the diversity within each nation. Media plays a key role in perpetuating these misinformed, pejorative perceptions.
The concept of Orientalism illustrates how mass media subverts intercultural understanding. Culture is the lifeblood of a society. In ancient times, culture was transmitted through oral tradition; in today’s world, culture is predominantly transmitted through mass media, particularly in developed countries. This transmission occurs not only reciprocally and generationally, but trans-nationally. In her chapter, Communication and Culture, Christine Ogan articulates her ideas on cultural imperialism. She believes the United States (the West) imposes their ideals on the rest of the world as a covert expression of power (211-215).
It is a clear fact that the United States dominates global media in all sectors, and the flow of information is unilateral (Ogan 2002, Kulver). Media is supposed to promote democracy, but there is nothing democratic about the spread of information. In the words of William Hachten and James Scotton in their chapter, The Whole World is Watching: Impact of Great News Events, “America’s local news has…become the world’s local news” (78). Basically, Western media informs the globalizing world who and what is worth covering. America, with all its technological and monetary resources commands immeasurable influence on global perception of events. It is also no coincidence that the United States represents the ideal for multinational capitalism. It seems nowadays, this transmission, or rather inculcation of culture unto less developed countries is truly an agenda aimed at integrating every country into the ‘American Dream.’ In Ogan’s words,
“The focus on economic development— generally under the umbrella of multinational capitalism—becomes the guideline for every autonomous system, and economic interdependence becomes the key to survival in the global system, while the strategies for preserving important elements of the cultures of the societies around the world have received much less attention”(213).

It is ironic, that a country founded on ideals of individual liberty and diversity is now imposing the very pressure our founding fathers sought to escape. Even more ironic is the fact that we urge developing countries to join our ‘capitalist program,’ with the hidden intention to maintain a monopoly, the antithesis of capitalist dogma. I believe the government and mega-corporations, while paying lip service to development, truly don’t want the 2/3rds world to develop for the better.This is also made evident in the New York Times article, U.S. Stands Alone on UNESCO Cultural Issue, which describes the refusal of the Bush administration to sign a treaty that would “protect and promote cultural diversity in the face of cultural globalization” (Riding 2005). Clearly, cultural hegemonic discourse is not compatible with promoting an informed public.
Despite the overwhelming evidence aforementioned, some individuals view the role of media in a better light. Someone who opposes my premise may claim, as Christine Ogan does, “that objectivity in journalism is impossible”(8-9); or they may agree with Randy Kulver, in that “media forms themselves are not passive entities,”(431) but rather a voice for a particular perspective. They could mention, as is described in William Hatchen and James Scotton’s chapter, Public Diplomacy and Propaganda, that each person can tune into their own version of the world with the flick of a knob, change of a channel, or flip of a page (208). Their conclusion may lead them to believe that what we have is not a function of misinformation, but a matter of volition.
As consumers of media we do have the choice to critically think about the information we receive, how we receive it, from whom and whether or not we agree. As is stated in our constitution, the right to information is synonymous with freedom of expression. Mass media should facilitate a global dialogue to better inform all people.  It could be vehicle for cultural expression, promoting diversity and democracy. The slanted nuances of language in media may not an imposition of western ideals upon the world, but a promotion of a developmental ideal.
Another point could be made that the United States’ media, although fallible like every product of human creation, is the best current framework for providing information to the public. One could say that many other countries deny their citizens access to information altogether; even though we may have to seek a second source, at least we have the freedom to do so.
While these claims do present valid points, they fail to view the issue in context. The real question behind this debate is, whose responsibility is it that the public is exposed to balanced viewpoints in media? As is described in the UNESCO report, Towards Knowledge Societies, access to information, technology and communication is essential for the development of any community (27-30). There is no doubt that access to fair, pluralistic, unbiased media can be an amazing source of empowerment, but the evidence shows the system of globalization is rigged towards the benefit of those in control. As a result of a manipulating cognitive biases, imposing cultural imperialism, widening the digital (and economic) divide, and ensuring the flow of information is unilateral, the Western majority remains misinformed about international realities.
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